Sunday, January 30, 2011

No Regrets.

Everything happens for a reason right? I was thinking about this and if everything happens for a reason then we shouldn't regret things. Sure, maybe we didn't want to do something, but it changed you in the bigger picture. So even if you think you made a mistake, somewhere along this journey you might realize how it might have helped you grow or helped you learn from your mistake. I am a firm believer in learning from your own mistakes. Granted, you might not want to make every mistake, but you will learn from the ones you make better then from someone else telling you not to. EXAMPLE: If a mother tells her child, "Dont play with fire you'll burn yourself." I'm pretty sure the child will do it and AFTER they burn themself they truly learn that hmm maybe fire isn't a good thing to play with. I am not saying go out and do something really dumb, I am just saying that, back to my original topic, you will learn from things that you do so you maybe you shouldn't live your life regretting everything wrong you do. As long as you learn from it then you shouldn't have regrets. Yes, sometimes I wish I knew why things happened. Not the typical arguement of "Why did God let this happen?" but asking myself "Why did I let this happen?"

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